You have a brain.

Never thought COVID-19 would ever make the languorous an analyst. And i won’t deny of not belonging to the same languorous group . Not just my own nation and the neighboring ones, the whole world is going through the same pandemic. Ultimately most of us are now free within the four walls only and it’s quite obvious to have different thoughts about the incidences apart form the pandemic.

We got to see about different trolls, memes on different subjects actually on every subjects, analysis about border disputes (hot topic), issues about violence (rapes and all that) blah blah blue blue. So let me talk about some those stuffs and and the related ones.

I am girl and when i got to see some offensive memes and trolls more relateable to girls it’s natural for me to be lil pissed off so maybe it’s my frustration that’s coming out but that’s okay. Now , you might have the feeling like wooh one more so called feminist wait wait wait, I am not. You know it takes so much of things to be the actual feminist. Feminism is one of the most powerful social justice movement the world has ever known. It’s women’s liberation movement for the upliftment of women somwhere among the patriarchy. It’s way more than equality marched for the fundamental imbalance betwen the men and women that necessitates changing the whole world.

Do not confuse feminism with sex discrimination legislation. It’s not about sprinkling a few woman at the top instead of men. It’s something more kinda humanism but not wholly. It’s a bridge for many social justice more like environmentalism , socialism etc. And to be feminist one need to have a strong and bold mindset and work accordingly. I support feminism but i am not an feminist. Well i fight for myself , or my self respect but throughout my life i have failed manytimes or i have been such a jerk to be ignorant.

I believed the fact that memes are to be taken in the way of memes or “don’t take it personally, just for fun” but sometimes do we ever think like some of the sensitive subjects are better not to be expressed as memes , some boundaries are not meant to be crossed. Well we are now part of such a nation where every boundaries are in the verge of expansion besides the nation’s boundary . Forget it another sensitive context. How cool is the post that’s attached below?

Well the memers must be potraying the equality here no?

I ain’t trying to exaggerate the things . I am also the one who reacted several hahas on memes like this. But for a sec, if we think don’t we have the qstn like should we? How cool is it to make fun of one by labeling them with the tag of opposite gender or talking about one’s sexuality? There are a lot of other subjects too.

The thing is, a guy doesn’t have to be a complete jerk to be sexist. There are plenty of charismatic misogynists out there – guys who don’t notice how they say things that demean women, especially when they’re trying to be complimentary. Last winter I used to go to the driving school and there used to be a trainer whom i addressed “brother” and he used to be one of this. They don’t even realize how their frivolous and yes, sometimes even funny, comments contribute to the derision of women in society and in STEM fields in particular. I do belong to the engineering so i have few such experiences too.

On the other hand, we can’t underestimate the difficulties that men are facing.One doesn’t need to hate men to be a feminist . Feminist do talk and look for the injustice of men . Afterall accending one doesn’t mean decending the rest. I recently got to hear about a 17 years old boy who committed suicide . So this guy was accused of sexual assualt and few days later he killed himself.

See i am not trying to defend either a girl or a boy here. Accquisition of anything doesn’t make him the criminal and he is innocent unless proven guilty. But here we stand the so called analyst, before knowing anything in detail we judge events based on our opinions and act accordingly. Social medias have become the most influencing part of most of us. Instagram, facebook, twitter, whatsapp, tinder and many other applications have a great impact on our day to day lives. Before the guy committed suicide we started trolling about him using the hashtags like molestar , rapist and what not and after he was dead we now( the same who trolled before) are trolling about the girl using the hastags like murderer, false accusation and all. And still we don’t know about who the actual culprit is. Can we please shut our judements before knowing the reality? It was just an example , there are so many such sensitive cases in many part of the world and not just here.

We often discuss about few such incidents though they have nothing to do with us directly. Infact on our regular days, when we travel through the public vehicles we get to witness few such activities. Many times their arise the misunderstanding about the misbehave one does in public vehicle , once a lady accused the wrong guy and he was beaten so hard by the rest of the passengers and later it was figured that he wasn’t the one who was to be punished. This types of things should not be ignored. One can have a biased opinion but not the biased judgements.

We human are actually the wisest being the nature has. Our brain work in a organized pattern endlessly perceiving, processing, planning, organizing, remembering. In short, we call it cognition or cognitive thinking but we might be going through the cognitive distortion sometimes. So let’s not let our cognitive distortions have a bad impact on other’s life too. Looking at the society we have what we feel is it doesn’t work for most of us anyway so we can move a step forward and fight and speak ourselves. You don’t have to take everything that the other gives, not even insult or sarcasm . But it doesn’t mean crossing the ethics. And no one else is going to set your limitations.

I had other few things on draft but thought of publishing this . And as usual i am unable to give it a proper end. See you in a while. Till then stay home, stay safe.